Without nagging him, even if he's never been a romantic man, and you don't have to bring him with you.
A free 90-minute live workshop with Susan Allan, founder of The Marriage Forum and creator of Heartspace™. You'll leave with your first Heartspace phrases written to motivate and inspire your own husband or partner.

Hosted by Susan Allan, founder of The Marriage Forum and creator of Heartspace™ · 27 years · 75,000 coaching hours
“Everything is wonderful! We're making this ‘the year of our marriage! We're both feeling very much in love with each other! Thank you!”
“Susan, you have given me back all my power and put me on a path towards getting everything that I have ever wanted. Susan Allan is so amazing. Her energy is life-changing.”
“Thank you, Susan, for the miraculous way I now communicate and live. Heartspace has improved my marriage and my entire life! Love you, Susan!”
He fixes, plans, provides and shows up on time, and you've been reading it as "he's just not a romantic man."
Our Four Different Selves, from Herrmann Brain Dominance. You'll find your quadrant and his, see the love he's already giving, and learn to express your needs so your husband or partner understands you and is motivated to become the loving partner he once was.
Julie, Westlake, CA. "I have gained this deep compassion for my husband... Before, I just saw everything only from my point of view."
You rehearse the conversation for days, walk in with your evidence, and it turns into a fight.
The Heartspace Shift. Are you in your Heartspace, or stuck in your headspace? The first two parts of LOVE TALK, Self-empathy and Empathy, happen in silence, before you say a word.
LC, Pasadena, CA. "Now I can feel compassion instead of feeling appalled."
You've stopped bringing it up because you sound like a nag, and you'd never want to manipulate him.
The 6 Part Conversation©, the sequence Susan has taught for 27 years. Feelings and needs, said calmly, checked for clarity, ending in a request he's free to say yes to.
The same skill secured 28 signatures in four months on a $1 billion project that had been stalled for eight years.
“Nobody gave you the words.”
“Same pain. One opens the door. The other slams it.”
“Loving deeply is a set of skills”
“Are you in your Heartspace? Or are you stuck in your headspace?”
“It takes only one of you to turn the heat back on.”
“Learn the words that bring LOVE back to life.”
I'm the founder and CEO of The Marriage Forum and the creator of the Heartspace™. I'm a certified mediator through the LA Bar Association, a certified Herrmann Brain Dominance trainer, and I studied Nonviolent Communication with Dr. Marshall Rosenberg for ten years. I've written six books, including the Heartspace™ LOVE Trilogy, spent 15 years as the love and relationship columnist for Santa Barbara Family Life Magazine and ten years as a television host, and I've been featured on CBS, ABC, NBC, Fox News, and the Associated Press.
The Heartspace™ LOVE Trilogy
I didn't learn this from the 500 textbooks I've read. I've received 17 marriage proposals and been married twice, and several men I loved cheated on me. I wanted the experience I call the Tantric Lock, when two are merged into one, and nobody could tell me how to create it.
So, I built the language for it. I created the exercises for women, and I've had a few men learn this from me! Through Rosenberg, Herrmann Brain Dominance, and 57 trips to India to study with enlightened masters, I developed what became LOVE TALK and Heartspace™, with 50 tools for loving well.
Since then I've spent 75,000 hours coaching and had 10,000 first conversations with people whose love had gone quiet. What I believe is simple: sexual chemistry is essential and can't be taught. Communication, including generating empathy, peace, fun, support and arousal, can be taught. When two hearts meet, they enter the Heartspace.
Susan's 6 Part Conversation© card, the Our Four Different Selves chart and LOVE TALK CONVOS, beautifully printable, plus two of Susan's ebooks, Heartspace™ The Magnificent Marriage and Heartspace™ Sacred Intimacy. Keep them where you'll see them every day.
Printable cards and charts for every day.
15 pages of What to Say and How to Say It, ending a cold war and creating peace, intimacy, and love
Only for women who attend LOVE TALK live. The link is shared in the chat at the end of the workshop.
Wednesday, November 18 · 5:00 PM Pacific / 8:00 PM Eastern · Free
You know you deserve LOVEYou know you long for LOVENow remove the barriers.LET LOVE FLOW & LET IT GROW!